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all are adults.  They guy you like and your girlfriend are aware of your dating situation, and if they are being honest, have no desire for each other.  So, that means you have a green light to continue seeing him, if that is your desire.  As far as the awkwardness, the best way to deal with that is to address it, but it sounds like you have done that already.  There is nothing else more for you to do.  If a situation arises in which you feel awkward, acknowledge it and be willing to let it be.  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had to put myself in your situation to answer this question. I personally don't think I would date any of my best friend's ex-partners but that's just me. You may have a total different relationship with your friends than I do, so it would be hard for me to judge. However, I guess you need to value your relationship with your friend and confirm the extent of her feelings for this dude past and present. If your friend totally gives you the green light then go for it as long as everyone is on the same page. One good thing you can get out of this situation is the truth about your guy friend. I'm sure your girlfriend will tell you the good and bad about him so you can make a better judgment about the potential relationship. I would weigh out the pro's and con's of this situation and try to make a good decision without damaging any friendships or relationships. The fact that you are asking about your situation makes me believe that you are battling with this issue and you are trying to make the right decision. 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