"But after having so many conversations with my girlfriends, I'm trying to figure out why some are dateless and others are not able to keep a new prospective interest around for more than a few months." Okay, so that may be a little extreme. But after having so many conversations with my girlfriends, I'm... Continue Reading →
Blog Rewind: What Men Say, What Women Hear, What He Really Means
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Black Women Are For Grownups- Why Billionaires Choose Black Women For Wives
"If these billionaires are doting on Black women, why don't Black women feel the same about themselves?" I came across this article that has been shared over and over online about how billionaire Ben Horowitz was alleged to have made the comment that men like himself prefer to date Black women because "they are for... Continue Reading →
Settling For “Something Called Love”
"After many adult conversations over the years, I have learned that too many people are in relationships that are not based off of authentic love and true friendship." Last week, my coworker shared a story about a friend of hers that reconnected with an old boyfriend and is now engaged to him. When the... Continue Reading →
Stop Arguing And Learn How to Communicate
~"I am a better person because I have learned how to communicate instead of arguing." I can tell you all that I have had many arguments over my lifetime. Little, medium, huge, and over the top arguments. Some may say I have a bad temper or I am a hot head! Well, I use... Continue Reading →
Falling In Love With Potential
What happens when you fall in love with potential and not reality? Click here to read Tamara's blog on Huffington Post
No Time for Insecurities ~ When Your Mate Admires Another
"All that said, what I don’t understand are those women that flip their wigs if their mate so much as looks in the direction of another woman." You’re walking through the mall with your spouse/mate/partner/lover (damn, I should’ve just said bae) when you notice him noticing another woman. How pissed are you at his obvious... Continue Reading →
Relationship Roundtable: Are We Lovers Or Friends?
"I have a male friend and we have maintained that friendship for some time now. We set a boundary that we will remain friends only, but we both know that we are attracted to one another physically and emotionally. He is really everything that I would want in a man, everything that is good for... Continue Reading →


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