Losing Yourself After Marriage And Kids

  Women love weddings, especially when we are the bride, right?  Once a woman is engaged the planning immediately follows. The planning for the overpriced ceremonies begin to become a reality. Many women go way over their wedding budget to create a day of memories and kind reactions from their attending guests. I’ve heard of … Continue reading Losing Yourself After Marriage And Kids

One of the Best Seafood Places in New Orleans

Harbor Seafood and Oyster Bar in New Orleans has some of the best seafood I ever tasted! This is a place where the locals go in New Orleans and when I tell you the food is Mmmmmm.. Good, I am not exaggerating. I have been to New Orleans several times, but my recent visit was … Continue reading One of the Best Seafood Places in New Orleans

Tithes And Offerings- What Happens When You Don’t Give Your 10%?

"Giving is not like it was back in the day when your grandmother spent all her time at church and did what the pastor told her." Back in the day, I use to hear a lot of men complain to their wives about giving the pastor all of their hard earned money. Men went to … Continue reading Tithes And Offerings- What Happens When You Don’t Give Your 10%?

That’s Just My Baby Momma

"At some point you have to get yourself together for you and your children and become an admired lady; show these other young mother’s how to handle these situations like a boss!" All relationships can be challenging from time to time, adding a baby momma to the mix can make the relationship very challenging. First you … Continue reading That’s Just My Baby Momma

Why Are So Many Children Being Molested?

"Then, one lady began to talk and she started off saying, “Ok, so we all know everyone has been molested as a child!” and she continued talking but I didn’t hear anything else after that. All of the ladies in the room nodded in agreement when she made that statement like it was normal." A … Continue reading Why Are So Many Children Being Molested?

Don’t Be Ashamed to Seek a Counselor/Therapist!

"I always wished I could control myself and I prayed that God would let me just react in a chill mode when things upset me." Some say it is a culture thing, others say it’s just embarrassing! Counseling is not supposed to be a negative aspect, it is the complete opposite. But yet, so many … Continue reading Don’t Be Ashamed to Seek a Counselor/Therapist!

Stop Arguing And Learn How to Communicate

~"I am a better person because I have learned how to communicate instead of arguing."   I can tell you all that I have had many arguments over my lifetime. Little, medium, huge, and over the top arguments. Some may say I have a bad temper or I am a hot head! Well, I use … Continue reading Stop Arguing And Learn How to Communicate

When your Boss at work is a…..evil Bitch!!!

~"Don’t be afraid of expressing valid concerns about your manager."   I have worked many jobs and had many different employers. I have experienced working with great managers and working with horrible ones. However, I always conducted myself in a professional manner except for that one time I got fired for my actions! (We won’t … Continue reading When your Boss at work is a…..evil Bitch!!!

Are you holding on to a dead relationship?…. Just let it go!!

~"I’m not bashing men because some women are capable of doing the same thing, and the man gets to a point when he has had enough too. But, I am a woman so I am relating to my own gender right now."   When it’s over… It’s over!! Many women reach a point in their lives … Continue reading Are you holding on to a dead relationship?…. Just let it go!!

Should we stay together because of the kids?

~"Sometimes too much damage has been done in the relationship and couple can’t even be intimate with one another."   Hell No!!.. That’s my answer to the question, “Should we stay together because of the kids?” Everyone deserves to be happy. Everyone deserves to live life to the fullest. No one wants to be miserable … Continue reading Should we stay together because of the kids?