Woe is a NO! – 40, Single and Childless

"Why is there is no celebration for the invisible ones who help the world go around?  Since she doesn’t have a ring or child she fades into the crowded background of the miscellaneous." As a single, childless and 40-year-old woman it is rare that people say things like “Congrats on being single. I need to... Continue Reading →

What I Learned About Dating From My 17 Year Old Self

"I am the type that loves love and relationships. I hate the dating part though. It’s this awkward space full of getting to know someone and that does not always happen easily. I like things that happen organically and naturally. So now at 37, I find it both irritating and aggravating to have to navigate... Continue Reading →

A Super Short Poem – A Relationship DISTRACTED

Having date nights, long walks and endless conversations is what she fantasizes about. Her friends and family notice a change in her swag. Passion spills from her pores. Life shines through her eyes. Her spirit seems to be unbreakable. She’s ready for a life partner. An unconditional love. The moment Mr. comes into view; Miss... Continue Reading →

You’re Thirtysomething. Why Aren’t You Married?

"Actually, I wouldn't mind being more like Blanche Devereaux from The Golden Girls." As soon as I openly admitted to divorcing a few years ago, the first question I was asked was if I wanted to start dating again. While I was appreciative of the encouragement to move on from a relationship that needed to... Continue Reading →

What Should’ve Been Mine ~ Short Story

“Kenya, I can’t thank you enough for watching the kids. I was really in a pinch, but like the amazing sister you are, you’ve come through once again.” Kenya watched her big sister rush around her bedroom gathering and packing things for her last minute business trip. She watched with both admiration and jealousy. She... Continue Reading →

Black Women Are For Grownups- Why Billionaires Choose Black Women For Wives

"If these billionaires are doting on Black women, why don't Black women feel the same about themselves?" I came across this article that has been shared over and over online about how billionaire Ben Horowitz was alleged to have made the comment that men like himself prefer to date Black women because "they are for... Continue Reading →

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