“As I get older, I am realizing relationships that don’t encourage me are not necessary for me and my WORLD.”

 

Have you ever met someone that you know deep down this isn’t going anywhere, but_______ . Insert whatever it is that keeps you in it. If this is you, raise your hand proud and let’s begin to dive into our Situationships.

I just released myself from a two year Situationship where I knew he wasn’t the one. I tried to seriously make a triangle fit into a circle. I wanted him to be something he wasn’t ready to be. I gave several reasons why it could possibly work.

We like the same things.

We have fun together.

And the best one of them all- he really wants to be with me.

The deeper I looked into it, there were so many instances that showed me he wasn’t the right fit for me.

Am I being thirsty, am I desperate for affection?

Maybe I am. But why… why am I constantly beating a dead horse with a series of relationships that are just Situationships?

Situationships are not just limited to your love interest. A situationship can also be a friendship that you know deep down in your spirit is not fulfilling to who or what you want to become on this life journey. As I get older, I am realizing relationships that don’t encourage me are not necessary for me and my WORLD. As a caring and nurturing woman, this is painfully hard because I feel like I am being mean, but if I WANT TO BE BETTER, how can I continue to pour out my goodness to undeserving souls?

As Fall approaches I am going to allow these dead uninspiring relationships with undeserving souls to die off just the leaves will fall from the trees.

~Vanessa

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