I've been dating a man and he is wonderful. He's kind, attentive, and everything that I've been looking for in a man. The problem is I don't feel like we are sexually compatible. He's not as adventurous and does not do all of the things that I would like him to do. I've talked to... Continue Reading →
I Found Your Man In My Inbox Again
"And while I'm not against a trip down memory lane, or catching up for old time's sake, what I won't do is entertain someone else's man." When I separated from my ex- husband, I did not make a huge announcement. There was no change to my Facebook status and I did not post anything exclusive... Continue Reading →
Relationship Roundtable- I’m Dating My Friend’s Ex
I met a guy that I really like. We connected immediately and both began dating. He told me that he briefly dated a close friend of mine once he happened to see a picture of my friend and I on my FB page. Briefly was a few dates and sex once when they were freshman... Continue Reading →
Married to a Habitual Cheater ~ Why She Stayed
"Lizzie looked at me and said 'I had no choice.'" I’ve had a lifelong relationship with an amazingly loving woman who has shared many stories and life lessons with me. Of everything she’s ever shared, the most fascinating has to be the inner workings of her twenty-seven year marriage. For the purposes of this... Continue Reading →
Prickly Stubble on Her Scalp
The barber says what you want Miss She stumbles on her words Her lips are tangled and worthless Words spill from her soul Cut please The barber taps his clippers with hands shaking and eyes bulked She says once more; cut please Barbers stare into scalps of men refusing to look at Miss She bounces... Continue Reading →
Your Personality May Be Ruining Your Dating Life
"But after having so many conversations with my girlfriends, I'm trying to figure out why some are dateless and others are not able to keep a new prospective interest around for more than a few months." Okay, so that may be a little extreme. But after having so many conversations with my girlfriends, I'm... Continue Reading →
Sharing Too Much Too Soon- How Much Information Is Too Much To Share?
"My Facebook timeline has everything from struggle plates from the night's dinner to somebody's auntie in a hospital bed, hooked up to all kinds of tubes, waving to the camera." TMI. Too much information. Today's society is overloaded with it. Somehow, social media gives us way too much insight into people's lives. My Facebook timeline... Continue Reading →
Black Women Are For Grownups- Why Billionaires Choose Black Women For Wives
"If these billionaires are doting on Black women, why don't Black women feel the same about themselves?" I came across this article that has been shared over and over online about how billionaire Ben Horowitz was alleged to have made the comment that men like himself prefer to date Black women because "they are for... Continue Reading →
Short Story ~ Paradise Is a Lie
Isabel ran around her small apartment making sure that everything was neat and clean. She’d strategically placed twenty candles throughout the confined space. Realizing that she only had twenty minutes before Jacob’s arrival, Isabel ran to the bathroom for a quick shower. She’d bathed, lotioned, and dressed in record time. As she waited for the... Continue Reading →


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