“I need both in my life. A professional legitimate hustler.” The other day I did a question of the day on my Facebook page and in a couple of Facebook groups. I asked if you preferred your mate to be a professional or be a hustler. Immediately, I saw the difference between the younger generation... Continue Reading →
On the matter of “great sex”
I know what you're thinking. There she goes again talking about sex. And really what it is is me not talking about sex as much as I'm reacting to all the talk about sex. I love film, television, music...culture, but I'm critical as hell of it. It's like that big brother/sister you adored as a... Continue Reading →
Raise Your Vibration
Kindness. Gratitude. Happiness. These words sound so basic but yet, it seems hard to obtain these very things. Where do you find happiness? How do you express gratitude? Who deserves kindness? There is no easy answer for any of those questions. But one answer is that all of the above starts from within. You can not... Continue Reading →
Tango with Diablo
"Maybe it's just utter insanity. To consciously fall for someone who is emotionally unavailable." You ever do something and you know damn well that it's not right, but you do it anyway? My girlfriends and I spend a lot of time talking about love and relationships. And one thing that we discuss often is falling... Continue Reading →
It’s Been Six Months Already…..
Confession: I started CLS in the midst of a lot of change in my life. My marriage was ending, I was suddenly a single mother of two kids with challenges, and I had minimal support. I had to quickly figure out everything on my own. It was not at all where I expected to be... Continue Reading →
Perfect Couples and Model Families: Shit is Not What it is Cracked Up To Be
"So when you see your friend post pics of her and her boo taking a trip to a beautiful island far away, know that they are dealing with real relationship challenges like you and I." The world of social media has turned out to be a blessing and a curse. On one side of the spectrum... Continue Reading →
Monday Motivation- Don’t Grant The Devil Access
"You may have recognized the lesson, but you have not passed the test." Sometimes it gets difficult to understand why things aren't changing in life. Why you continue to choose the same man over and over again. Why there continues to be the same turmoil and stress. Why nothing seems to move forward. You... Continue Reading →
Overcoming Anxiety
"Motherhood definitely contributed to heightened anxiety in the twenties and thirties. And with each addition to the family, the anxiety grew as well." According to the Anxiety and Depression Association of American, more than 6.8 million people are affected by general anxiety disorder (GAD). Individuals affected by this condition experience excessive anxiety and worry, often expecting the... Continue Reading →
Situationships
"As I get older, I am realizing relationships that don't encourage me are not necessary for me and my WORLD." Have you ever met someone that you know deep down this isn't going anywhere, but_______ . Insert whatever it is that keeps you in it. If this is you, raise your hand proud and let's begin to... Continue Reading →
Feminine Empowerment- The Aces Tour
We are excited to partner with Carina Glover, owner of Chiffon Events and creator of The Aces Tour! When dynamic women come our way, we at CLS blog are always happy to collaborate. CLS will be part of the Atlanta leg of the Aces Tour. We will be there hosting red carpet interviews... Continue Reading →


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